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The Grand Philosophies of Facebook Users

Filed Under: Internet, Psychology by Steve — 1 Comment
August 31, 2010

Among Facebook’s several design flaws are a number of things that can be avoided if you take the right steps. What I’ve noticed that you can’t avoid are the little angsty preppy teen quotes everyone copy/pastes into their wall. Some of it has been made into business by turning them into things you can like on a “like site” with ads and such on it. Still, these little quotes can still plague your feeds.

The Facebook LogoNo, I’m not even talking about the “Pass this on and your wish will come true! (Really!)” things. Sometimes people will have these nuggets of vague advice they need to share with the world, and today’s technology enables them. Why anyone would pay for a fancy phone to read these things is beyond me (I’m hoping the facebook app isn’t used to check feeds).

Occasionally, emotions will overrun someone’s mind, and force them to post things like “men are awful” against their will. It can be happy emotions, too, like “I have the best girlfriend/boyfriend”. In any given moment, at least 90% of the population that is in a relationship would say they’re in the best one (or at least perfect!). If you ask that same group three years later, unless they were in the same relationship, they would definitely say it wasn’t the best.

Sometimes, they’ll even go as far as condescending to those who don’t happen to have learned from the faults they had in the past. Here’s a quote I saw earlier today:

“(Name) Doesnt care about “girls like bad boys” stereotype. I am dating a nice guy, assholes are overrated and I refuse to date them. Keep your dangerous rebels, emo boys, guys who are more jaded then a hobo living under a bridge hooked on meth, guys who like to seem distant so that the girls will chase them(nice reverse psychology). Ive got a good guy and Im not another statistic.”

Sure, that’s nice. While on the outside this is just another “I’m glad I’m not single at the moment”, it’s only slightly more than that. This person may also want to legitimately help someone else be as happy as she as, but in doing so, she has only formed a statement that fits that claim of a “Perfect relationship” status. Other people will tend to cheer these posts on, with even less insight:

“Amen girl! The good guys are the ones who will still cherish you when you’re old and wrinkly.” & “Scream it sister! Amen“. This will happen regardless of the positive/negative qualities of the post they care commenting on.

I’ve seen this sort of thing hundreds of times. It’s generally an early relationship thing, where one is just happy to be with someone, and the arguments haven’t started yet. This happiness from just being with someone is what prevents relationship-straining topics like “What is your opinion on abortion?” from coming up early on. There’s a point in the beginning of a relationship where you’d prefer to be floating in your brain’s happy chemicals than know if the relationship is genuinely going to last. But I’ve arrived at a tangent at this point.

Friends don't let friends drink and post.But there are much worse cases of low-quality Facebook posts. These are generally centered around the party/drinking culture. I’ve included in this post a screen capture of one of these posts by someone that is an emerging celebrity. Seems as though ten people like that this person is drunk. This post was commented on later, but before that point, there were a bunch of people that saw the word “drunk” and immediately found some sort of amusement there. Either that, or for some reason ten creeps thought they were going to score online or something impossible like that.

There are also some religion propaganda to help deepen your level of indoctrination, but that’s another topic for another day.

I could just be overthinking this, though. Maybe Facebook is just somewhere thinking doesn’t belong. I went there to connect to people, and I got way more than I wanted. I guess the general public is whatever the popular social site at the time makes it, which would mean Facebook is to blame for enabling these people to feel good about their existence without actually doing anything of value. It’s no place for my social commentary, art, inventions, psychology, or philosophy. That’s quite a shame, really, since these things (not mine in particular, but everyone who provides such things) bring legitimate lasting pleasure to people in the big picture. After all, it’s nerdy stuff (computers, smart phones, and other tech you’re spoiled with at this point that only nerds had three years ago) that you’re using to read this and post stuff on Facebook.

Related Blog Post by Bob Waack.

Minor note: While I’m aware I may upset people with this post, the intention is to educate, not anger.

Tags: Current, Emotions, Facebook, Internet, Mind Virus, Philosophy, Psychology, Relationships, Social, Social Commentary, Social Networking, Stupidity, Teenage Psychology
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Emotional Leadership: The Artist Versus The Philosopher

Filed Under: Personal, Philosophy, Psychology by Steve — 2 Comments
May 3, 2010

Many people base their political philosophies on their emotion. So often is this the case when protecting the weak or supplying the poor; it is all too easy to look at an unhappy person and think “I wish I could do something to keep them from being unhappy!”. There is nothing wrong with wanting to help someone! Unfortunately, not everyone can, but they still wish to do something. Blinded by this overwhelming desire, they turn to the people that do have money and ask “what will you do for this person?”, and cast their unhappiness upon any men who dare say “I shall do nothing.” or ignore their outcry altogether.

So, a recap: This person’s emotion has caused them to feel pity enough to take action, and has also made them unhappy when help was not supplied by someone that could offer it.

This is about the point where they look further to solve this problem. They have assumed the poor are poor because rich are rich, and look to their government to balance this out. The rich are in debt to the poor, they would declare. They wish they could do all the things rich people do, and decide for themselves that they do not deserve it. This is the only way to solve this problem! They would at this point decide how to get their ideas embedded in their government and take action. This is the path of the emotional policy maker.

This isn’t to say emotion should be ignored completely in politics, but it shouldn’t be a foundation for anything, as you may well know, your emotions change all the time, and (hopefully) your home’s foundation does not. Would you want a government to act on emotion in all things, or just on a particular thing that you feel emotional about? Odds are you would, deep inside, want the government to think what you think, which at a personal level isn’t a bad thing to think; just don’t act on it. An emotional government would be whimsical. A group doesn’t have an emotion, it has people in it that have emotions. If a government is acting on an emotion, it is acting on the ideals of a single individual. This feeling could change at any moment, and the amount of people that share the feeling is irrelevant, for they can change at any given moment as well.

As I can’t be sure if my emotions have formed this logic or not, I shall still ask the question, would you rather put a gun in the hands of an artist or a philosopher?

Tags: Artist, Change, Control, Emotions, Government, Group, Gun, Individual, Logic, Philosopher, Philosophy, Politics, Poor, Power, Problem, Psychology, Questions, Rich, Socialism, Utilitarian
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Facebook Is Not Going To Start Charging (Or Else!)

Filed Under: Future, Internet by Steve — 1 Comment
April 22, 2010

Facebook is not going to charge you to use it. They could, but it is a social network’s death wish.

FacebookHere’s the problem with charging: Let’s say that once the site starts charging, five out of ten people stay with the site. This is a very generous number, too. Those people that pay now only have the opportunity to talk to half as many friends. Wouldn’t that make the experience less valuable? People would quit after that, and there’s almost no way they’d recover, even if they said “Hey, we’re free again! Come back!”. A new social network will have arisen by then.

You are having your emotions toyed with if you are joining these anti-charging protest groups to try to stop them from doing so. These are created by people smart enough to know people will act on their generated “What if they did?” scenarios, and join because of the unhappy times they see ahead. Why would they do this? It gives them access to the feeds of a lot of people; they could advertise whatever they wish in those.

I’ve considered doing it too (for advertising purposes), but I have standards.

Tags: Ads, Advertising, Charging, Emotions, Facebook, Future, Money, Smart, Social Networking
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